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平凡な日々が嬉しい

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平凡な日々が嬉しい 平凡な日々が嬉しい 平凡な日々が嬉しい


久方ぶりに息子とバスケットボールを試合形式でしたのです。
いつも大差で負けるのに今日は11対9の僅差まで持ち込みました。公園から帰る途中、彼は胃腸の具合が悪いと訴えます。夕食直後に激しい運動をしたためなのです。

それもそのはず、市販のマーボードーフのルーで8人前を作り、それを2人だけで平らげました。
市販のそのルーはどう見ても記載されてる1袋4人分としては足りません。2-3人分ほどしかないはず。

私は彼に全て食べきる必要はなく、残しても良いと伝えています。
「ここは日本の給食では無いのだから、好きなだけ残していいんだよ」と。
小学校で体験入学を何度も体験している彼らは「残さずに食べる」と言う教育を受けた事があるからです。
当時の担任の教師から、それは「食育です」と教えられました。好き嫌いを無くすと言う面で、確かに優れた教育方針の1面はあります。

ところが残すのは「もったいない」として、全て食べ切るのを強要するのは人権問題とも絡んでくると言えないでしょうか。
各個人に食欲の差があり、また同じ人でもその日の体調によって食欲が異なるはずです。

私は小学校3年生の時にどうしても牛乳を飲むことができないのに、給食時間が終わり次の休憩時間の全てを使っても強要されたことがあります。
同じクラスのある男子生徒はすべての授業が終わり放課後になっても飲みきれずにチビチビと強要されました。それだけ時間が経った牛乳は匂いを放ち、そばで見ていても気持ち悪かったです。

現在の給食はどうなっているのでしょうか。
好き嫌いをなくす教育は優れていますが、アレルギー問題等でどうしても食べられない事例もあります。
さらにあれほど健康や成長に有効だと信じられていた牛乳は、実は私たち日本人の体質には合わずあまりオススメしないドリンクであることも最近の研究から明らかのようです。
娘はヴィーガンですので乳製品は一切口にしません。それらを避ける姿はまるで宗教の食物規定のように徹底したものです。

先ほどまで具合悪いと横になっていた息子は、今や起き上がってお菓子をほおばりながらオンラインでのゲームに興じています。

バスケをしているときの雲行から、今日の夕日はとてつもなく綺麗だろう、と息子と話していました。
しかし平均ほどのものでしかなかったようです。
特別な凄さの無い日々の生活の中で、こうして平凡な関係づくりが息子とできることが感謝でなりません。


It's been a while since I played basketball with my son in a game format.
I always lose by a large margin, but today I brought it to a narrow margin of 11-9. On the way back from the park, he complained that his stomach was not feeling well. It was because he had done some strenuous exercise right after dinner.

I made 8 servings using commercial marbled tofu roux and ate it up just for the two of us! .
That roux is apparently not enough for the 4 people listed in the box, only about 2-3 people. Still, I used two boxes of that roux and cooked many vegetable ingredients together.

I tell him he doesn't have to eat it all and that it's okay to leave it out.
I told him, "This is not a Japanese school lunch, so you can leave as much as you want.

My kids have been through many short term experiences in elementary school, and they've been taught to "eat without leaving anything behind by them.
Their homeroom teacher at the time taught me that it was nutrition education. It is certainly a good educational policy in terms of eliminating likes and dislikes.
However, forcing students to eat all the food served is right thing? Teaching not to waste of food could be a possibility of violation of human rights, isn’t it?

Each individual has a different appetite, and the same person's appetite should vary depending on their physical condition that day.

When I was in the third grade of elementary school, I couldn't help drinking milk, when lunchtime was over and the next recess was over, still I was in struggle to finish drinking it.

One of the boys in the same class couldn't finish drinking milk after all the classes were over and after school, and he was still compelled . After that much time, the milk smelled and was unpleasant to watch near.

What is the current school lunch system?

It's a great way to eliminate likes and dislikes, but there have been cases where children have been unable to eat because of allergies and other problems.

In addition, milk, which was believed to be effective for health and growth, is actually not suitable for our Japanese constitution. It seems to be clear from recent studies that it is not a drink we would recommend.

My daughter is vegan and doesn't eat any dairy products at all. Her avoidance of them is as thorough as a religious food policy.

My son, who was lying down a few minutes ago when he was sick, is now up and snacking on sofa. He has been playing games online.
I've been talking to my son about how the sunset today will be incredibly beautiful from the cloud line while playing basketball.
But it seemed to be only about average.

I am so grateful that I can create an ordinary relationship with my son in my daily life without any special Requirements.

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