I used to run with the CEO of Weyerhaeuser, Asia, and being a very bright running mate, he left some memorable lines over the miles.
He, when talking about old friends, in fun, mentioned that they would be angry most mornings.
He would, in defending their attitude say, “They wake up, spring loaded, in the angry position.”
Lack of sleep, a problem on one’s mind, someone who successfully provoked an issue, wake up “spring loaded.”
We agreed, over the miles, that mental attitude was completely an inside job, totally up to the individual.
I could start the day with a heart full of gratitude and a smile, or be “spring loaded.”
I get to my locker where I work out early in the morning and I sit and write the five things I am grateful for, that morning, on one side; after I write the 5 things, I draw two lines and write, “And today, I will be non-judgmental.” There are thousands of cards on a shelf, in my office.
We agreed, we could start the day any way we wanted.
I found it impossible to be angry, self absorbed or “snarky” when focusing on gratitude and when I am not judging the other person.
All of life is written on the “backside of my eyeballs.” It’s my choice and it’s my choice to be grateful, not angry that day.